Summit: Embodied Conflict Resolution & Non-Violent Communication

Five world-leading experts on embodied conflict and Nonviolent Communication

Summit: Embodied Conflict Resolution & Non-Violent Communication.
Conflict is an unavoidable part of being human — but as David Weinstock teaches, "there is harmony to be found at the center of every conflict." Join five world-leading embodiment experts for an on-demand summit on the somatic art of conflict transformation. Discover practical tools to navigate difficult conversations with confidence and compassion, cultivate self-awareness, soften into self-compassion, and turn moments of tension into opportunities for connection, empathy, and repair.

Comprehensive Curriculum

Session 1 — In the Fertile Soils of Conflict, We Can Create Compassion, Gentleness, and Love
Ron De Brito · 75-minute experiential session

The pains we carry show up in behaviors that stimulate pain in ourselves and others. Conflict is often the tension between the self trying to protect from pain and the same self longing for connection. Through grounded, embodied awareness and the language of Nonviolent Communication, soften into self-compassion for the needs you long to meet — embracing grief for unmet needs and gratitude for the body that opens to receive the world.

Session 2 — Boundaries: An Unappreciated Antidote to Conflict
Stephen Kotev · 75-minute experiential session

Acceptance and yielding are often praised, but the value of clear boundaries is underacknowledged. Healthy boundaries nourish self-esteem and build resilience. Veteran conflict resolver Stephen Kotev leads an interactive session on how healthy boundaries fortify conflict competence.

Session 3 — Loving Justice: An Essential Skillset for Conflict Transformation
Kai Cheng Thom · 75-minute experiential session

In a time of global strife and political polarization, new models for conflict transformation are urgently needed. Qualified Mediator and Somatic Coach Kai Cheng Thom presents her Loving Justice model — rooted in Transformative Justice and grounded in both metaskills ("how to be") and microskills ("what to do") for addressing conflict with strength and compassion. Leave with practical tools for working through complex relationship issues.

Session 4 — Harmonizing Our Inner Conflicts: Somatic Consensus and Practices for Embodying Nonviolent Communication
David Weinstock · 75-minute experiential session

There is harmony to be found at the center of every conflict. David Weinstock shares a physical, emotional, linguistic, and energetic practice that transforms old reactions into resources for self-healing, relationship building, and finding your voice. Build coherence between what you say, feel, intuit, and do — and turn historical reactions into pathways for connection.

Session 5 — Understanding How People Work Helps Us Work Well with People: The Neural Basis of Conflict and Communication
Tim Hicks · 75-minute experiential session

Conflict is shaped by what we know, what we believe, and how we perceive others — all embodied in the neural structures of our nervous system. Tim Hicks explores the roots of conflict in the neural characteristics of knowing and identity: why conflicts happen, why they're so hard to resolve, and how perceptual biases like confirmation bias, implicit bias, naive realism, projection, and in-group/out-group behavior shape our experience.

Learning Outcomes & Professional Benefits

  • Soften into self-compassion using the language of Nonviolent Communication
  • Cultivate grounded, embodied awareness in the midst of conflict
  • Build healthy boundaries that fortify conflict competence
  • Apply the Loving Justice model for relationship repair and conflict transformation
  • Find coherence between your words, feelings, and nonverbal communication
  • Understand the neural roots of conflict, knowing, and identity
  • Recognize perceptual biases (confirmation bias, implicit bias, projections, in-group/out-group dynamics)
  • Transform historical reactions into resources for connection and healing
  • Turn difficult conversations into opportunities for empathy and repair

Who This Is For

- Mediators, conflict resolvers, and negotiators
- Therapists, counselors, and somatic practitioners
- Coaches, leaders, and HR professionals
- Educators and pastoral workers
- Activists and community organizers
- Couples and individuals navigating relational conflict
- Anyone who wants to communicate with greater clarity, compassion, and confidence

Faculty

Ron De Brito

Ron De Brito


I was born in London to African/Indian Trinidadian parents. I am a Certified Embodied Facilitator, Radical Wholeness Facilitator with The Embodied Present Process, Empowerment and Compassion Coach, Nonviolent Communication Practitioner, and Mediator. I hold Grief Circles and am Trauma Informed. I'm passionate about helping people discover gentleness and compassion, unearth their interconnection, and experience resonant vitality and Wholeness in the body. A former secondary schoolteacher and research biochemist, I coach 1:1, hold group trainings, and am a keynote speaker—in love with aliveness and our beautifully interconnected universe.

Tim Hicks

Tim Hicks

Tim Hicks is a conflict management professional providing mediation, facilitation, training, coaching, and consulting to individuals and organizations in the private and public arenas since 1993. From 2006 to 2014, after 14 years in private practice, he led the Master’s degree program in Conflict and Dispute Resolution at the University of Oregon to a position of national prominence as its first director. In that position, in addition to his other responsibilities, he taught a number of graduate-level conflict resolution courses.

Stephen Kotev

Stephen Kotev

Sought out for his insight and innovative ways of tackling difficult disputes, Stephen is one of the few practitioners that sits at the nexus of embodiment, leadership coaching and conflict resolution and is known for his practical, engaging and highly interactive teaching style informed by his study of Aikido, Embodied Peacemaking, Men’s Work, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, Somatic Abolitionism and mytho-somatic explorations.

Kai Cheng Thom

Kai Cheng Thom

Kai Cheng Thom, MSW, MSc, Qualified Mediator, Certified Professional Jungian Life Coach, and Certified Somatic Sex Educator, is a coach, process facilitator, and mediator whose work focuses on the intersections of trauma healing, Transformative Justice, and social change. A noted theorist and practitioner in the field of conflict resolution, Kai Cheng has made significant contributions towards the integration and application of conflict transformation, crisis intervention, and body-based trauma healing methods in an activist context through her writing and teaching. Kai Cheng maintains a private practice as a one-on-one somatic coach, consultant, and group facilitator, drawing from extensive professional trainings in a wide variety of healing and wellness disciplines. She has also trained hundreds of embodiment and wellness professionals as Adjunct Faculty with the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a Senior Teacher at The Embody Lab.

David Weinstock

David Weinstock

An international trainer of Nonviolent Communication, somatic coach, Aikido instructor, and master goldsmith, this teacher integrates embodiment, communication, and conflict resolution into a cohesive path of practice. The author of Becoming What You Need and developer of Somatic Consensus, their work supports people in aligning language, emotions, and action through body-based awareness. Drawing on the peaceful art of Aikido, they teach workshops and offer coaching worldwide, helping individuals deepen relationships, find their voice, and navigate life with clarity, integrity, and embodied presence.