Master Series - How to Transform Freeze, Fawning and Appeasement into Nervous System Safety

Move Beyond Survival Responses into Flow, Vitality, and Authentic Connection

How to Transform Freeze, Fawning and Appeasement into Nervous System Safety.
This course brings together three leading voices in somatic psychology and trauma healing to offer a rich, embodied exploration of how the nervous system shapes our inner lives and relationships. Participants will gain a deeper understanding of how trauma responses such as freeze, fight-flight, and appeasement operate within both the body and the broader cultural landscape. Each module combines accessible theory with practical, body-based tools designed to help practitioners and individuals move from survival states toward greater flow, vitality, and authentic connection. Together, these teachings offer a compassionate and expansive framework for healing that honors the complexity of human experience across individual, relational, and systemic dimensions.

Comprehensive Curriculum

Module 1 - Beyond Fawning: Appeasement is the Fourth F with Nkem Ndefo
In this module, somatic practitioner and resilience educator Nkem Ndefo introduces appeasement as a distinct and underrecognized stress and trauma response. She argues that it functions as a core fourth survival strategy alongside fight, flight, and freeze. This response is particularly relevant for individuals navigating complex social hierarchies shaped by race, gender, and other systemic structures of oppression.

Key Concepts Covered

  • Appeasement vs. Fawning: Distinguishing appeasement from the commonly used concept of fawning, explaining that fawning is a localized subcategory, while appeasement operates on a macro scale directed at groups, cultures, and internalized social norms.
  • The Cost of Survival: Examining the hidden internal toll of chronic appeasement and reframing it not as a personal failure, but as an active adaptation to real power differentials.
  • Limits of Individual Regulation: Recognizing that systemic power imbalances cannot be resolved through individual nervous system regulation alone.

Learning Objectives & Format

Through structural analysis and somatic mapping, participants will learn how to build real-time awareness of their own or their clients' appeasement responses. This module provides the framework to shift from internalized shame to self-compassion, helping individuals reclaim the systemic energy and bandwidth needed to participate in the collective, liberatory work of dismantling oppressive social hierarchies.

Module 2 - Autonomic Wisdom: What We Know About the Nervous System with Deb Dana
In this module, Deb Dana guides participants through how the autonomic nervous system serves as the ever-present foundation beneath all human experience and relationship, impacting both personal living and professional clinical practice.

Key Concepts Covered

  • Autonomic Truths: Exploring the core principles of nervous system architecture, including the shared organizing hierarchy among all human nervous systems.
  • State-Shaped Perception: Understanding how an individual's internal autonomic state directly dictates how they perceive and interpret the outside world.
  • Ventral Vagal Regulation: Identifying ventral vagal regulation as the essential somatic ingredient for long-term well-being, deep healing, and genuine relational connection.
  • Glimmers and Micro-Moments: Utilizing micro-moments of safety and "glimmers" to gently shift the nervous system away from defensive bracing.

Learning Objectives & Format

Through hands-on reflective practices, participants will learn how to help clients identify their autonomic anchors, listen to the innate wisdom of survival responses, and construct a personalized resource menu. This module anchors practitioners in the foundational belief that every nervous system carries an inherent longing to return to regulation and already possesses the pathway home.

Module 3 - From Freeze to Flow– Creativity, Somatics, and Trauma Healing with Rosario Sammartino
When we experience trauma, the body often enters states of freeze, collapse, or chronic holding patterns that constrict our capacity to feel, express, and dream. Led by Dr. Rosario Sammartino, this module explores how integrating movement, somatic awareness, and creative expression can support the vital transition from trauma-induced stuckness back into a state of flow. The session honors the innate creative, emotional, and imaginal intelligence within each individual that inherently knows how to adapt and heal.

Key Concepts Covered

  • Trauma and Somatic Holding Patterns: Identifying how traumatic experiences manifest physically as states of freeze, collapse, or repetitive muscular bracing.
  • The Halprin Life/Art Process®: Drawing on this expressive arts therapy methodology to bridge the relationship between physical movement, emotional processing, and artistic expression.
  • Awakening Embodied Imagination: Utilizing depth psychology and contemporary trauma-informed frameworks to reconnect clients with their internal creative and imaginal resources.

Learning Objectives & Format

Through interactive, experiential activities and somatic practices, participants will discover how to awaken dormant physical expression. This module equips practitioners with expressive and body-centered tools to help clients expand internal resiliency resources, bypass cognitive defense mechanisms, and discover creative new pathways toward deep healing.

When we experience trauma, the body often enters states of freeze, collapse, or repetitive holding patterns that limit our ability to feel, express, and dream. Yet within each of us lives a creative intelligence—somatic, emotional, and imaginal—that knows how to adapt, reconnect, and find new pathways toward healing. In this module, we explore how the integration of movement, somatics, and creative expression can support the transition from stuckness to flow. Drawing from the Halprin Life/Art Process®, depth psychology, and contemporary trauma-informed practices, Dr. Rosario Sammartino guides participants through experiential activities designed to awaken movement, expand internal resources, and reconnect with embodied imagination.

Learning Outcomes & Professional Benefits

Differentiate Between Fawning and Appeasement: Recognize appeasement as a distinct fourth survival strategy alongside fight, flight, and freeze, understanding how it functions on a cultural scale rather than just an individual level.

Analyze Sociopolitical Trauma Responses: Deconstruct how social hierarchies, power differentials, race, and gender shape autonomic stress adaptations, moving away from personal shame toward systemic understanding.

Apply Polyvagal Organizing Principles: Navigate the core hierarchy of the autonomic nervous system to identify personal anchors and track how internal nervous system states dictate client perception and relational connection.

Build Personalized Regulation Menus: Design customized, body-mapped resource menus that the nervous system can authentically accept to navigate micro-moments of dysregulation and discover "glimmers" of safety.

Transition from Stuckness to Flow: Implement somatic movement, depth psychology, and creative expression techniques—including the Halprin Life/Art Process®—to awaken the imagination and gently dissolve chronic freeze, collapse, and physical holding patterns.

Who This Is For

Therapists, counselors, and somatic practitioners looking to integrate Polyvagal theory and deconstruct survival adaptations beyond the traditional fight/flight/freeze model; trauma-informed clinicians and coaches seeking to understand the distinct nuances of fawning versus appeasement; professionals wanting to address the sociopolitical, cultural, and systemic dynamics of how stress responses manifest across different race and gender lines; somatic movement and depth psychology practitioners interested in using creative expression—such as the Halprin Life/Art Process®—to break through chronic physical holding patterns; and individuals or wellness enthusiasts looking for body-based tools to dissolve personal shame, dismantle survival-driven appeasement, and reclaim safety, flow, and authentic relational connection.

Faculty

Nkem Ndefo

Nkem Ndefo

Nkem Ndefo is the founder of Lumos Transforms and creator of The Resilience Toolkit, a model that fosters embodied self-awareness, supports stabilization from the impacts of personal and collective trauma, and nurtures adaptive capacity in the face of stress—all within an ecologically sensitive and social justice-oriented framework. She brings extensive experience as a clinician, educator, researcher, and community strategist to innovative programs that address trauma and inequity, build resilience, and catalyze liberatory change for individuals and organizations across the U.S. and globally. Nkem is especially committed to working in solidarity with people most impacted by violence and marginalization.

Deb Dana

Deb Dana


Deb Dana, LCSW, is an author, clinician, and consultant using Polyvagal Theory to understand and resolve trauma while honoring the autonomic nervous system. She developed the Rhythm of Regulation Clinical Training Series and lectures internationally. Deb is a founding member of the Polyvagal Institute, clinical advisor to Khiron Clinics, and advisor to Unyte. Her clinical works with W.W. Norton include The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy, Polyvagal Exercises for Safety and Connection, and the Polyvagal Flip Chart. With Sounds True, she released Befriending Your Nervous System and the book Anchored.

Rosario Sammartino (Dr.)

Rosario Sammartino (Dr.)

Rosario Sammartino, PhD, is a Somatic Movement Therapist and Educator (MRSMT/E), artist, and depth psychologist with over twenty years of experience integrating somatics and expressive arts in trauma recovery. Born and raised in Buenos Aires, she specializes in body-centered and creative approaches informed by Gestalt, psychodynamic, and depth psychology. A former co-director of Tamalpa Institute, she continues to teach internationally, is a professor at Lewis & Clark Graduate School, and maintains a private practice in Portland, Oregon.