Reclaiming Pleasure: Embodied Joy in Trauma Recovery and Social Change

Embodied joy as a tool for personal healing and collective transformation

Reclaiming Pleasure: Embodied Joy in Trauma Recovery and Social Change.
What if pleasure was the secret key to trauma healing and social transformation all along? Join Kai Cheng Thom — somatic sex educator, certified coach, and adjunct faculty at the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education — for an experiential deep dive into what happens when the body says "YES." Across four workshops, explore how to safely and soulfully access pleasure as a resource for personal healing, relational growth, and revolutionary social change.

Comprehensive Curriculum

Session 1 — Healing Pleasure
Kai Cheng Thom · 2-hour experiential session

The fields of embodiment, trauma healing, and social change are rich in knowledge of trauma — but what do we know about pleasure? Through embodied practice, cultivate awareness of pleasure across all the body's senses, and explore the neurobiology of arousal, excitement, and bliss in relation to states of survival and trauma.

Session 2 — The Power of Pleasure
Kai Cheng Thom · 2-hour experiential session

Explore the revolutionary power of pleasure as a tool for individual and social change. As adrienne maree brown writes in Pleasure Activism, pleasure can heal us from the inside out — and shake oppressive systems to their core. This is the opposite of spiritual bypassing. Learn how to develop relationships and communities where pleasure is a resource for survival, resilience, and growth.

Session 3 — Sacred Sexuality, Somatic Sexuality
Kai Cheng Thom · 2-hour experiential session

Sexuality, desire, pleasure, and eros are intrinsic to the felt sense of being human — yet shamed and stigmatized in dominant culture, particularly for women, queer and trans people, and marginalized groups. Explore the lineage of Somatic Sex Education, Sexological Bodywork, and Sacred Intimacy — body-based healing professions rooted in queer resilience and resistance — as a path to the unfolding of your deepest self.

Session 4 — When the Body Says Yes
Kai Cheng Thom · 2-hour experiential session

In the shadow of pleasure lives the fear that our love and desire might be dangerous — to others, or to ourselves. Pleasure can redeem our most shameful selves, and we can redeem pleasure through consent, clear boundaries, and "sacred taking." Embrace the wild self's capacity for giving and receiving, and explore embodied frameworks like Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent.

Learning Outcomes & Professional Benefits

  • Cultivate awareness of pleasure through all the body's senses
  • Understand the neurobiology of arousal, excitement, and bliss in relation to trauma
  • Use pleasure as a tool for personal and collective transformation
  • Build relationships and communities where pleasure is a shared resource
  • Explore Somatic Sex Education, Sexological Bodywork, and Sacred Intimacy
  • Develop skills in consent, clear boundaries, and "sacred taking"
  • Apply Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent for embodied communication
  • Reclaim pleasure as a path to Transformative Justice
  • Sustain healers and activists through embodied joy and rest

Who This Is For

- Therapists, counselors, and somatic practitioners
- Sex educators, sexological bodyworkers, and intimacy coaches
- Healers, activists, and movement-builders
- Coaches and helping professionals
- Caregivers, parents, mentors, and educators
- Yoga teachers, leaders, and pastoral workers
- People of color/culture, 2SLGBTQ+ folks, disabled folks, and anyone of marginalized experience reclaiming pleasure
- Anyone seeking embodied joy as a path to healing and change

Faculty

Kai Cheng Thom

Kai Cheng Thom

Kai Cheng Thom, MSW, MSc, Qualified Mediator, Certified Professional Jungian Life Coach, and Certified Somatic Sex Educator, is a coach, process facilitator, and mediator whose work focuses on the intersections of trauma healing, Transformative Justice, and social change. A noted theorist and practitioner in the field of conflict resolution, Kai Cheng has made significant contributions towards the integration and application of conflict transformation, crisis intervention, and body-based trauma healing methods in an activist context through her writing and teaching. Kai Cheng maintains a private practice as a one-on-one somatic coach, consultant, and group facilitator, drawing from extensive professional trainings in a wide variety of healing and wellness disciplines. She has also trained hundreds of embodiment and wellness professionals as Adjunct Faculty with the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education and a Senior Teacher at The Embody Lab.