Cole Zesiger

Faculty

About

Cole Zesiger is a breakup and relationship coach specializing in breakup recovery, dating advice, and relationship coaching. After a divorce at 23 and another breakup soon after, he began sharing his journey on social media—growing to over 750,000 followers across Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and more.


He has coached 2,000+ people through heartbreak, helping them either rekindle relationships in a healthy way or move on with peace. His practical approach blends psychology, attachment theory, and real-world strategies to guide people from heartbreak to healing.

When not coaching, Cole enjoys time with his wife and daughter, playing guitar, dirt biking, and exploring the mountains. His debut book, Ex’s and No’s: The Breakup Advice You Don’t Want to Hear, offers a proven roadmap to rebuild self-worth, master communication, and create healthy, lasting love.

Courses by Cole Zesiger

Summit: The Embodied Relationships Summit — Building Secure Love & Healing Attachment Wounds

Summit: The Embodied Relationships Summit — Building Secure Love & Healing Attachment Wounds

A two-day on-demand summit on attachment, secure love, and embodied healing. 16 leading experts share practical tools for regulating reactivity, repairing rupture, healing codependency, navigating heartbreak, and building relationships rooted in consistency, clarity, and emotional safety.